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May. 14th, 2007 @ 12:35 pm (no subject)
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From:simplymelodious
Date:May 14th, 2007 07:50 pm (UTC)
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But you've already said numerous times that you do not know who their fathers are, don't you think you owe it to your children and their fathers to know?

There may be an absolutely awesome dad out there for your kids, someone who will be devastated 10-15 years from now to find out that they missed out on their child's life.

It's not about you, at all, it's about your child. But you obviously can't see past your own pathetic excuses.
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From:ladygaia87
Date:May 14th, 2007 07:57 pm (UTC)
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Their potential fathers know they are potential fathers, as I've stated before. I told them, as I"ve stated before, when I was pregnant that it might be theirs, they said, again as I've stated before, that they were not ready to have children. Yes, there may be, but, if there is, why aren't they trying to find me and my children? They know where I live, and they know my phone number, so wouldn't it make sense?
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From:simplymelodious
Date:May 14th, 2007 08:07 pm (UTC)
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YOu just said in previous comments that you don't know who they are, or don't remember their names. Your oldest child is what, three, four? You're going to try to convince people that you don't remember who fathered a child you had less than 5 years ago?

You're also missing the point. You owe it to your child to know who their father is.
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From:ladygaia87
Date:May 14th, 2007 08:11 pm (UTC)
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I got the point, TY. I don't know who they are NOW, is different than the fact that I did know them at one time. Right? Right. I know what i remember, and I KNOW I don't remember the guys names, I suck at remembering names, so sue me, mmkay? My oldest will be 3 in September. My phone number hasn't changed, neither has my address, so it won't be that damn hard for them to find me if they want to see their kids, now will it? I don't think so.
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From:simplymelodious
Date:May 14th, 2007 08:22 pm (UTC)
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Still missing the point, which is really sad and pathetic.
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From:ladygaia87
Date:May 14th, 2007 08:25 pm (UTC)
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Actually, again, I got the point. The point: If your kid asks who his/her father is and you won't know, your kid will be affected by it. See, I got the fucking point.
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From:simplymelodious
Date:May 14th, 2007 08:35 pm (UTC)
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Do you even give a shit about your kids at all? Seriously?
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From:ladygaia87
Date:May 14th, 2007 08:41 pm (UTC)
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Yes, I do care about my kids. My kids are my life. You want to know how much I care about them? Before finding out I was pregnant with Melody, I almost killed myself...numerous times. But, because I got pregnant with her, I didn't, because I had a life to take care of, I had something that GAVE me reason to live. My kids mean EVERYTHING to me, if it wasn't for them I wouldn't have anything. I'd do anything I could to be sure they had the best life possible.
From:aaww_my_bees
Date:May 14th, 2007 10:15 pm (UTC)
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Out of randomness, really not trying to be an ass or anything. But maybe you could look in your yearbook or something. Since you have trouble with names, maybe their faces would ring a bell. Maybe write down names now and store it somewhere just in case your kids do ask some day.
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From:ladygaia87
Date:May 14th, 2007 10:18 pm (UTC)
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Ya know, I didn't think about that. Thanks for recommending that. :)